top of page
WELCOME TO MY BLOG
I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
Search


clareword
Sep 9, 20242 min read
It’s The Dead Who Determine How Long We Should Mourn For Them.
A few years ago a man whose wife died a few months previously came to me and asked, “How long should I mourn my wife’s death?” Here’s...
150
2


clareword
Sep 2, 20243 min read
You Can Buy Envy, But You Have To Earn Respect
A few weeks ago I turned 76. That means I have “mileage.” I’ve had my own successes and failures, experiences both good and bad and I’ve...
150
3


clareword
Aug 26, 20245 min read
"Senseless" Suffering - Part II
How in the world could a loving God allow this kind of thing to happen? That question was voiced in anger by a pastor from Seattle as a...
180
3


clareword
Aug 19, 20247 min read
"Senseless" Suffering - Part I
If God is sovereign over everything and all powerful, then it’s within his power to stop senseless suffering, so why doesn’t he? Here’s...
162
2


clareword
Aug 12, 20247 min read
Being an Advocate for the Poor
Decades ago a man I deeply admire asked this penetrating question of me, “Is there anyone right now praising God for you because without...
189
3


Clare DeGraaf
Aug 5, 20243 min read
How to Dialogue with Intelligent People and College Students who are Less Likely to be Religious
“Intelligent people generally don’t simply reject religion because it’s wrong; they reject it because their social environs lead them to...
191
13

clareword
Jul 29, 20244 min read
Did God Spare Trump For A Specific Purpose?
Less than three weeks ago former President Trump was shot by an assassin and lived. Praise God! We were all shocked as details came in...
218
3


Clare DeGraaf
Jul 22, 20243 min read
Dealing With Our Pet Sins.
It’s bad enough when you see a friend or family member make an unwise or sinful decision and then have to watch them live with the...
162
5


Clare DeGraaf
Jul 15, 20244 min read
How does God speak to us?
Having written a book on obeying God when he gives us an impression to do something, I often get the “but exactly how does he do that?”...
190
5
bottom of page