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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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Introduce Jesus and the “Way of Jesus” to Others.
I was on vacation in Florida a number of years ago and I was invited to attend a men’s study on The Purpose Driven Life, by Rick Warren....

Clare DeGraaf
May 8, 20144 min read


Resist the Power of Sin and Rescue Others Still Victims of it
This is Part Three of my blog on the four rules of life, I’ve established to make practical and memorable my personal mission statement:...

Clare DeGraaf
May 4, 20144 min read


Be Kind, Generous and Forgiving Toward Everyone Today
This is Part Two of my blog series on the four rules of life I’ve established for myself to give teeth to the phrase, making God look...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 30, 20143 min read


Love God Enough to Trust Yourself to Him Completely
This blog is Part One of my next four blogs on four simple rules of life that summarize for me what it means to make God look good and be...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 27, 20146 min read


Following Jesus Made Simple
On the cabinet next to the sink where I get myself ready every morning, I have a small, plastic coated piece of paper with my summary of...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 20, 20142 min read


Do You Have a Secret?
There’s a question I’ll occasionally ask the men I’m spiritually mentoring, especially if they exhibit a lack of contentment, healthy...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 13, 20143 min read


One Question Every Christian Should Ask Themselves Often
“Would the people who know you best consider you a Christian or a follower of Jesus?” I still remember the stunned look on Dave’s face...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 6, 20143 min read


The Do’s and Don’ts for Dealing with a Substance Abuser
A few weeks back I sat in a coffee shop with a bright young businessman, late 30’s, college educated and good looking. He had everything...

Clare DeGraaf
Mar 30, 20144 min read


The “Other” 10 Second Rule
In light of Monday’s blog about a woman’s emotional affair with her best friend’s husband, I thought this blog by Rob Parsons would be...

Clare DeGraaf
Mar 27, 20144 min read
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