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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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Have You Had a Family Meeting on Inheritance Issues?
Twice in the last 15 years, we’ve held family meetings to discuss inheritance and we’re about to have our third. As an advisor and...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 20, 20155 min read
Topic #6: 7 Things You Can Do to Help Your Church Get Ahead of the Curve on LGBT Issues
“Even for those Christians who agree that homosexual practice is contrary to the will of God, there is very little agreement on how we...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 13, 20156 min read
Topic #5: Teaching Your Children to Think Biblically and Respond Wisely
One of the real dangers of being parents today, is that you never really know all the ideas your children are being exposed to. This is...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 9, 20155 min read
Topic #4: Not All Homosexuals are Alike
A few years ago, I began attending a series of lectures at a local Christian college on the general topic of homosexuality. The...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 6, 20156 min read
Topic #3: “Why Not Let Homosexuals Marry?”
With the legalization of same sex marriage on June 26, 2015, by the Supreme Court, you might think this blog is irrelevant. However, just...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 2, 20157 min read
Topic #2: Arguments Gay Christians Use to Justify Their Choices Biblically
With last weeks decision by the Supreme Court legalizing same sex marriage, you may feel like giving up. It’s over! Yes, that legal issue...
Clare DeGraaf
Jun 29, 20157 min read
Topic #1: 5 Things We Know the Bible Says with Clarity About Sexuality, Marriage and Sin
(If you’ve not read the Talking Points Series Introduction, posted on June 22, 2015, please read that first or this blog my not make much...
Clare DeGraaf
Jun 25, 20155 min read
An Introduction to the Series
Who needs one more blog on homosexuality? Perhaps you do. But let’s find out. How comfortable do you feel talking to your teenagers,...
Clare DeGraaf
Jun 22, 20155 min read
Gays and Scouting
I was a Boy Scout for over 12 years. I eventually became a Scoutmaster. One of the most influential men in my life was my amazing...
Clare DeGraaf
Jun 15, 20155 min read
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