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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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Engineering a More Purposeful Life
This blog is primarily for men, but applicable for every true follower of Jesus. Have you noticed that nearly all the great stories...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 3, 20173 min read
The Rise of the “Sovereign Self”
Before you get all riled up over the millennial generation’s drift to moral self-governing, let’s first understand the problem and then...
Clare DeGraaf
Mar 27, 20173 min read
We Are Often the Average of Our Five Closest Friends
I’ve been reflecting on a statement I heard a few months back. A trusted friend said, “we (Christians) are the average of our five...
Clare DeGraaf
Mar 20, 20173 min read
Sanctuary Churches: Right or Wrong?
Last weeks blog was on the topic of Sanctuary Cities. These are U.S. cities who’ve made the decision to not co-operate with Immigration...
Clare DeGraaf
Mar 13, 20173 min read
Sanctuary Cities; What Should Christians Think?
What is a sanctuary city? There’s no official, legal definition of a sanctuary city, because various so called “sanctuary cities” have...
Clare DeGraaf
Mar 6, 20174 min read
What if You’re Invited to a Gay Wedding?
A few weeks ago, I spent time with two friends, one of whom has a gay brother. I was asked, “How should I respond if I’m ever invited to...
Clare DeGraaf
Feb 27, 20173 min read
Teaching your children greater appreciation for God’s Laws
This blog is a follow-up to last week’s (February 13, 2017). It will make more sense if you read that first. “I want you to go out and...
Clare DeGraaf
Feb 20, 20175 min read
Why Your Children May Not Adopt, “The Faith of Their Fathers” (and What You Can Do About It)
For two decades, I’ve spent a lot of time with college and post-college “Christians.” Many of them grew up in the church, from good...
Clare DeGraaf
Feb 13, 20174 min read
The Myths That Not-Yet-Christians Believe About God
It should come as no surprise that people who are not-yet-Christians have accepted and therefore repeat things about God they believe are...
Clare DeGraaf
Feb 6, 20173 min read
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