Clare DeGraafJan 23, 20145 minConsensual Hypocrisy – Part IIOn Monday I posted Consensual Hypocrisy, Part I. Today I want to push toward some practical solutions to the problem. Glass Houses It’s...
Clare DeGraafJan 20, 20143 minConsensual Hypocrisy – Part ISin is the most theologically correct answer to the question of “why” we’re hypocrites, but that’s too easy. There’s a reason why a...
Clare DeGraafJan 13, 20143 minFour Characteristics of Control FreaksMost of us know controlling people. But it’s rare that any of us see ourselves as controlling. I’ve always been driven. I still am. But,...
Clare DeGraafJan 6, 20144 minWhat Role are You Auditioning For?I was having coffee a few weeks ago with a mid-30’s, very successful businessman who considers himself a Christian. (I don’t know him...
Clare DeGraafJan 2, 20144 minShould Everyone Go to College?On Monday, I shared the story of me talking to two of our daughters into dropping out of college. This blog might make a little more...
Clare DeGraafDec 30, 20133 minIs it Wise to Encourage Your Kids to Attend College Right out of High School?Several years ago, I went to lunch with a man whose son was finishing Christian high school in six months. I know their son. He’s bright,...
Clare DeGraafDec 23, 20133 minWho was Jesus, Before He was Jesus?Yes, you read that right! What was the nature of the second member of the trinity before he was the God/Man Jesus? (By the way, only we...
Clare DeGraafDec 16, 20134 min“I just don’t care!”A few months ago, I was having dinner with a few great kids – students at a local Christian college. We were talking about the...
Clare DeGraafDec 12, 20138 minQ&A from Readers on HomosexualityQ. You wrote that you consider born again, celibate homosexuals your brothers and sisters in Christ. What about born-again homosexuals...