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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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The Lie We’d All Like to Believe
I’m sure someone else is (or will) help them. There it is. The lie we’d all like to believe. A few weeks back, I was with two men I had...
Clare DeGraaf
Jun 5, 20172 min read
Gender Fluidity
As a parent or grandparent it would be a serious mistake to dismiss the importance of gender fluidity to your children or grandchildren!...
Clare DeGraaf
May 29, 20173 min read
Everyone is Gay!
Several weeks ago, I received a desperate call from our daughter at the public high school several of our grandchildren attend. All the...
Clare DeGraaf
May 22, 20174 min read
For Your Own Children’s (or Grandchildren’s) Sake, You Must Read This Blog
A great friend of mine, Preston Sprinkle sent me this story and he wrote this response a few months ago. Hi. My name is ____________. I...
Clare DeGraaf
May 15, 20175 min read
Sin: Disordered Love
When I grew up, I had a clear idea what sin was. If the Bible, my pastor or my parents thought something was a sin – it was a sin! So,...
Clare DeGraaf
May 8, 20173 min read
Making a Case for Hypocrisy
Last year, I was meeting with a young man – a brand new Christian. He and I had been studying the Bible for months and he’d begun...
Clare DeGraaf
May 1, 20172 min read
It’s Not a Salvation Issue
I was recently on a Christian college campus in Ohio. A friend of mine and I were there speaking on the subject of homosexuality,...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 24, 20172 min read
Good Friday Revisited: Jesus Deserved to Die
This past week, I met with a young Christian who asked why Jesus, innocent of any sin had to die on the cross. Here’s how our dialogue...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 17, 20172 min read
Christians Don’t Encourage Singleness Enough
“I can’t believe Mary’s daughter still isn’t married. She’s 32, has a great job, loves the Lord and nice looking. You’d think there would...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 10, 20173 min read
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