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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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There is an old Afghan story that goes like this; A boy is given a horse on his 14th birthday. Everyone in the village says, “Oh how...
Clare DeGraaf
Nov 17, 20193 min read
On What Verses in the Bible Have You Based That Idea?
It’s stunning to me how many Christians express their ethical, moral or political ideas strongly as if they got those ideas straight out...
Clare DeGraaf
Nov 10, 20193 min read
I Sometimes Blog Because I’m Unsure What I Believe
(Yes, that’s me. And yes, I still don’t use a computer to write my blogs. Old School.) My wife and I were out to dinner a few weeks ago...
Clare DeGraaf
Nov 3, 20193 min read
The Dangers of Claiming Promises, God Never Made to You
A few years back, I met with a man considering a new job in California, moving there with his family. While the job and the move sounded...
Clare DeGraaf
Oct 27, 20194 min read
Six Mistakes Many Straight Christians Make When Talking About Homosexuality, that “Date” Them
I’m 71 and “old school.” I’m proud of that in some ways, like having a good work ethic, being courteous and loyal, my love for God and...
Clare DeGraaf
Oct 20, 20196 min read
Is Christianity Good for the World?
In May, my son Tyler and I headed off to Washington to attend an event sponsored by the Colson Center. The topic for the conference to...
Clare DeGraaf
Oct 13, 20197 min read
The Times They Are A-Changin
In 1964, Bob Dylan wrote this powerful and prophetic warning to parents in a song: Come mothers and fathers throughout the land. Don’t...
Clare DeGraaf
Oct 6, 20194 min read
Planning the Divorce of Your Denomination
A year ago, I met with the presidents of two well known denominational seminaries. I was introducing them to the ministry of The Center...
Clare DeGraaf
Sep 29, 20193 min read
Fake It Until You Make It
When I was in 10th grade, I was an odd kid. My parents were simple, blue-collar people while I dreamt of being rich, so I hung out at...
Clare DeGraaf
Sep 22, 20193 min read
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