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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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5 Ways to be a Better Priest
Evangelicals almost never talk about their priesthood. And, I’m not referring to those men in robes and vestments standing in front of...
Clare DeGraaf
May 16, 20164 min read
Serving With a Bad Attitude
I’ve been asked many times if it’s wrong to serve, if our hearts are not really in it. I hope not. Perhaps half the time I’m serving...
Clare DeGraaf
May 9, 20164 min read
Jump-Starting Your Spiritual Life
If you have a spiritually indifferent older child or adult, here’s an idea for Mother’s Day. When I found out I had lymphoma cancer 35...
Clare DeGraaf
May 5, 20163 min read
Building “Redemptive Relationships”
Two of our grandchildren are heading off to college next year. While on vacation a few weeks ago with 23 of our family, I set aside some...
Clare DeGraaf
May 2, 20163 min read
“Bathroom Bills?” – 4 Things You’ll Want to Know to Dialogue Wisely on This Issue
The so-called “Bathroom Bills” passed by a number of cities and states have been big news recently. The state of North Carolina is the...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 25, 20165 min read
Finding a Spiritual Mentor
By far the most difficult part of finding a spiritual mentor is having the courage to ask. Men in particular, fear rejection more than...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 18, 20164 min read
Becoming a Spiritual Mentor
Someone you know right now needs a spiritual mentor. They may not use those words, or even know exactly what they need. But most younger...
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 11, 20164 min read
Have You Been Waiting for a Sign From God?
Ken Davis, a Christian comedian, tells a humorous story of a Christian who gets on an empty city bus, walks to the rear, and sits down....
Clare DeGraaf
Apr 4, 20163 min read
Five Ways to Help You and Your Family Keep Easter “Alive” All Year Long!
I love Easter because it’s the most important day in the Christian calendar. And I’m wrapping Good Friday, the day Christ died, under the...
Clare DeGraaf
Mar 28, 20163 min read
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