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I spend half my life in coffee shops having honest conversations about how following Jesus works in real life. So, let’s learn together, grab a cup and join the conversation.
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Ant Language – Part II
Last week I introduced the term “ant language”. If you accept my premise and explanation it will allow you to identify and faithfully...
Clare DeGraaf
Sep 12, 20166 min read
Could Many of Our Theological Differences Simply Be “Ant Language”
“When two denominations, or theologians who love God deeply and both have a high view of scripture, disagree on a doctrinal issue, the...
Clare DeGraaf
Sep 5, 20167 min read
Marriage, Family and God’s Authority Structure
I am often approached by young men thinking of getting married, for counsel. One of the first things I want to find out is if they, and...
Clare DeGraaf
Aug 29, 20166 min read
Eight Important Questions For Finding the Will of God For Your Life
“I’m thinking of doing something different vocationally. I’ve been in a job that’s been OK, but I’m bored and there’s not much room for...
Clare DeGraaf
Aug 22, 20165 min read
What’s God’s Will For My Life?
I was sitting at Starbucks a while back, on a fine fall day with a young man about to graduate from college in the spring. He and I had...
Clare DeGraaf
Aug 15, 20165 min read
“Things” That Tempt Us
Recently, I met with a young husband who has had an affair. He’s confessed it to his wife, asked God’s forgiveness and cut off the...
Clare DeGraaf
Aug 8, 20163 min read
Your Children or Grandchildren, May Believe in a Different God Than You Do!
You may be turned off by the alarmist tone of my next sentence, but I mean every word of it. This blog is about a “Christian” worldview,...
Clare DeGraaf
Aug 1, 20164 min read
Guest Blog: An Interview with Eric Metaxes
John: Please explain what you mean by the “Golden Triangle of Freedom,” a concept which you take from Os Guinness, that inspired you to...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 25, 20167 min read
Six Things You Can Do to Address Racism
I hear white Christians blaming the problem on the immorality and breakdown of the family in urban America. And blacks see racial...
Clare DeGraaf
Jul 18, 20164 min read
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