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A Warning From Jesus About a Sin Most Christians Long to Commit
“Then he told them a story: A rich man had a fertile farm that produced fine crops. He said to himself, ‘What should I do? I don’t have...

Clare DeGraaf
Jun 18, 20172 min read


Most of Us Have the Reputation We Deserve
I once had a conversation with a very successful man, who had a horrible reputation in the business community. He also claimed to be a...

Clare DeGraaf
Jun 11, 20172 min read


The Lie We’d All Like to Believe
I’m sure someone else is (or will) help them. There it is. The lie we’d all like to believe. A few weeks back, I was with two men I had...

Clare DeGraaf
Jun 4, 20172 min read


Gender Fluidity
As a parent or grandparent it would be a serious mistake to dismiss the importance of gender fluidity to your children or grandchildren!...

Clare DeGraaf
May 28, 20173 min read


Everyone is Gay!
Several weeks ago, I received a desperate call from our daughter at the public high school several of our grandchildren attend. All the...

Clare DeGraaf
May 21, 20174 min read


For Your Own Children’s (or Grandchildren’s) Sake, You Must Read This Blog
A great friend of mine, Preston Sprinkle sent me this story and he wrote this response a few months ago. Hi. My name is ____________. I...

Clare DeGraaf
May 14, 20175 min read


Sin: Disordered Love
When I grew up, I had a clear idea what sin was. If the Bible, my pastor or my parents thought something was a sin – it was a sin! So,...

Clare DeGraaf
May 7, 20173 min read


Making a Case for Hypocrisy
Last year, I was meeting with a young man – a brand new Christian. He and I had been studying the Bible for months and he’d begun...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 30, 20172 min read


It’s Not a Salvation Issue
I was recently on a Christian college campus in Ohio. A friend of mine and I were there speaking on the subject of homosexuality,...

Clare DeGraaf
Apr 23, 20172 min read
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