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A Divorced Woman’s Response To My Blog
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Last week, I blogged about the unintended consequences of divorce, whether you are in the innocent or guilty party. I received the following comments from Yvonne, a divorced Christian, who has given me permission to share what I think everyone should read.

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Thinking About A Divorce? Think Again.
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“I’ve had it! Our marriage is a sham. I really believe it would be better for the kids to not be exposed to the constant tension in our home. I just want to be done with it.”

I’m guessing that you’ve also heard these pain-filled words from a family member or friend and found yourself at a loss as to what to say. Over the next few weeks, I’ll be passing to you some ideas others and I have used to help our friends make wiser and more biblical choices.

Setting aside for a few minutes what the Bible has to say about divorce, and who’s to blame for the disintegration of the marriage. Here’s my response to this statement; “I just want to be done with it (or her, in this case) and move on.”

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Re-thinking What It Means to be “Devoted to Doing Good.”
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I just finished reading the short book of Titus. In chapter three, Paul uses a slight variation of this phrase three times, “devote yourself to doing good.” The opening verses of Titus say this:

“Remind the people to be subject to rulers and authorities, to be obedient, to be ready to do whatever is good, to slander no one, to be peaceable and considerate, and always to be gentle toward everyone.” Titus 3:1, 2

The first time I read those familiar verses, I blew right past them. “Sure, I know that! All Christians should devote themselves to doing good. Next!” But when I ran into that phrase “do good” twice more in the same chapter, I had an impression from the Holy Spirit to stop and reflect on them. So, what does it actually mean to devote yourself to doing good? 

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Seven Reasons Christians Shouldn’t Play the Lottery
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I’ve never blogged on the subject of gambling and the lottery, because specific prohibitions against both, in the Bible are rather thin.

However, the other day, I ran across this blog by Pastor John Piper who does a great job of making a case against playing the lottery, using a number of general biblical principles that I believe apply. So, if you are a lottery player, or you know another Christian who is, carefully consider John’s wisdom.

Americans now spend more than $70 billion dollars annually on lotteries. That’s more than the combined spending on books, video games, and movie and sporting-event tickets. Lotteries are legal in 43 states.

“That’s more than $230 for every man, woman, and child in those states — or $300 for each adult,” reports The Atlantic.

I agree with the report that this is a great shame on our nation. From time to time, the Powerball or Mega Millions lotteries rise to unusually high numbers and get fresh attention in the news.

Here are seven reasons, among others, I have often rehearsed to make the case that you should not gamble with your money in this way.


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